I have never been more grateful for the freedom to home educate. If home education became illegal -tomorrow? I would be an outlaw - tomorrow.
In the past few months, I have fielded more inquires into home education than in all of the previous 16 years combined. Why? Because there are countless parents who simply can not bear to send their kids back to the testing warehouses - the Common Core laboratories - where nothing makes sense and where enthusiasm for learning goes to die.
The more I hear from parents, who are daily stupefied and aghast over the inferior curriculum, the tormented teachers, and the clueless autocrats - all of which are inflicted on exhausted and enfeebled children - the more certain I am that it is doomed, doomed, doomed. It is so sad.
I grieve for these children. But, there is one hope.
Bill Gates, who must certainly and deeply regret ever putting his money into this, should simply admit that he was wrong. Mr. Gates should apologize to the nation. This would be the beginning of our long journey out of this educational purgatory. This is how the United States, as a nation, can be rescued.
Bill Gates' money has done great things in the past. For example, the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation has helped to eradicate polio in India and continues to make great strides, reducing polio by as much as 99% across the globe! When philanthropy can do something like this, something so clearly GOOD in all respects, everyone applauds. Indeed, everyone is deeply grateful. But, when philanthropy seeks to affect massive social change in a country, while the bulk of the citizens in that country oppose it and mistrust it, no good can come of it.
Mr. Gates knows this now.
But can he admit it?
Mr. Gates, I thank you for your generosity and for all the good you have done. But, it is time to throw in the towel on Common Core. It is time to admit that it was a bad idea. It is time to extract yourself from the College Board Cartel.
Your apology can rescue the country from the apocryphal Common Core and the mediocrity it embodies. Just these words: "I am sorry. I was wrong." It costs nothing at all and it can rescue more kids now than ever before.
Friday, June 5, 2015
Thursday, July 3, 2014
Hobby-Lobby Hyperbole
The sea of misinformation on the Supreme Court decision this week was really quite something to witness. The Facebook kerfuffling, the twitter conniptions, and the endless rants and tantrums from the left are of heroic proportions. And mostly wrong.
Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg lays it on thick in her dissent and she seems to knowingly pave the way for this sweeping misunderstanding with her immature hype. At 81, I guess she figures she has nothing to lose, but seriously? Her opening words: "In a decision of startling breadth, the Court holds that commercial enterprises, including corporations along with partnerships and sole proprietorships, can opt out of any law (saving tax laws) they judge incompatible with their sincerely held religious beliefs." This is not an opinion based on law and it is her lack of judicial disposition that is most disturbing . She uses inflated phrases like - "Unleash havoc...." and "radical purpose". This kind of shrill bombast you might expect on a sports page, or some middle-aged homemaker's blog, but not from a Supreme Court Justice. It is very disappointing. Plus, she's wrong.
The decision applies only to closely held corporations and the majority merely said that Hobby Lobby could refuse to pay for four kinds of contraception. Nothing, nothing, stops the employees from buying their own supplies.
I am willing to bet dollars to donuts that Ginsburg has never run a business. When the founder of a closely held corporation sacrifices all her time, all her money, and possibly all her health to build something from the ground up, it, in very large measure, is her and it embodies her values and investment. The last thing she expects is some over-reaching government telling her why her religious conscience is irrelevant.
Ginsburg also finds it awfully inconvenient that many American citizens still have a religious conscience. In her frustration with this troublesome truth, she temporarily trades her legal reasoning for her political passion. I do not think Supreme Court Justices are supposed to do that. Yep, if Ginsburg had her druthers, she would much rather obliterate the liberty of those with a religious conscience.
On this Independence Day, as a country, we really ought to remember what our Founding Fathers fought to achieve. The Revolution, the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution are all at odds with what Ginsburg said, because she does not remember that individual liberty and, especially, religious liberty is germane to this decision.
No one is stopping anyone from acquiring what ever kind of birth control is wanted. Amen.
I am so insulted by the implication in all of the protests and strident stink I have seen - evidently, women are helpless babies. Women are so very helpless that when an employer removes some forms of birth control from the menu of refundable medical expenses, they become defenseless, pathetic victims who see misogynistic boogey-men everywhere, and they can no longer figure out how to find birth control?
Does Ginsburg and do the shrieking feminist lemmings who are parroting her dissent think that women are this stupid and helpless?
Employers don't give us floss. Do our teeth fall out?
If the state does not pay for birth control, is there no other way to take care of this business?
Ginsburg can only see one thing - a transfer of power away from the bureaucrats and regulators and into the hands of people who actually produce value and income. Oh, well, we sure can't have that, huh?
Religious liberty might be inconvenient, Justice Ginsburg, but America had better hope that it never, ever becomes irrelevant.
Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg lays it on thick in her dissent and she seems to knowingly pave the way for this sweeping misunderstanding with her immature hype. At 81, I guess she figures she has nothing to lose, but seriously? Her opening words: "In a decision of startling breadth, the Court holds that commercial enterprises, including corporations along with partnerships and sole proprietorships, can opt out of any law (saving tax laws) they judge incompatible with their sincerely held religious beliefs." This is not an opinion based on law and it is her lack of judicial disposition that is most disturbing . She uses inflated phrases like - "Unleash havoc...." and "radical purpose". This kind of shrill bombast you might expect on a sports page, or some middle-aged homemaker's blog, but not from a Supreme Court Justice. It is very disappointing. Plus, she's wrong.
The decision applies only to closely held corporations and the majority merely said that Hobby Lobby could refuse to pay for four kinds of contraception. Nothing, nothing, stops the employees from buying their own supplies.
I am willing to bet dollars to donuts that Ginsburg has never run a business. When the founder of a closely held corporation sacrifices all her time, all her money, and possibly all her health to build something from the ground up, it, in very large measure, is her and it embodies her values and investment. The last thing she expects is some over-reaching government telling her why her religious conscience is irrelevant.
Ginsburg also finds it awfully inconvenient that many American citizens still have a religious conscience. In her frustration with this troublesome truth, she temporarily trades her legal reasoning for her political passion. I do not think Supreme Court Justices are supposed to do that. Yep, if Ginsburg had her druthers, she would much rather obliterate the liberty of those with a religious conscience.
On this Independence Day, as a country, we really ought to remember what our Founding Fathers fought to achieve. The Revolution, the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution are all at odds with what Ginsburg said, because she does not remember that individual liberty and, especially, religious liberty is germane to this decision.
No one is stopping anyone from acquiring what ever kind of birth control is wanted. Amen.
I am so insulted by the implication in all of the protests and strident stink I have seen - evidently, women are helpless babies. Women are so very helpless that when an employer removes some forms of birth control from the menu of refundable medical expenses, they become defenseless, pathetic victims who see misogynistic boogey-men everywhere, and they can no longer figure out how to find birth control?
Does Ginsburg and do the shrieking feminist lemmings who are parroting her dissent think that women are this stupid and helpless?
Employers don't give us floss. Do our teeth fall out?
If the state does not pay for birth control, is there no other way to take care of this business?
Ginsburg can only see one thing - a transfer of power away from the bureaucrats and regulators and into the hands of people who actually produce value and income. Oh, well, we sure can't have that, huh?
Religious liberty might be inconvenient, Justice Ginsburg, but America had better hope that it never, ever becomes irrelevant.
Friday, May 9, 2014
Shame, Shame, Shame on this Rutgers University junta....
Rutgers University now holds the most dubious honor of rejecting America's first female African-American Secretary of State and first female African-American National Security Advisor as commencement speaker. This comes as a result of one of the most conspicuous moves of any single-agenda, left-leaning group of students and faculty ever. Condoleezza Rice withdrew from her commitment to speak at the Rutgers University commencement amid faculty-led controversy and objection. Congratulations, Rutgers. Your myopic, narrow, hissy-fit will be a stain on your history forever more.
Let me take a minute to thank the President of Rutgers who worked hard to ignore the small group of harpies and hotdogs who had their way in the end. Also, I apologize to all of my friends who have students at Rutgers. I am certain that they are among the majority of students and faculty at Rutgers who knew they were lucky to get Condoleezza Rice as commencement speaker.
Professor Rudolph Bell and other small-minded professors (who one can only hope will be in an unemployment line somewhere soon) actually helped people organize the tragically confused and surprisingly small group of student protesters. It is so nice to have liberal professors remind us that the marketplace of ideas is not the Rutgers way.
Of course, forever the class act, Condi Rice decided to give them the heave-ho. Way to go, Condi.
To the cry-babies and buffoons who caused Ms. Condoleezza Rice to withdraw:
1. No one takes you seriously and no one is stupid enough to believe that this was anything more than political zealotry gone wild with even more disturbing religious undercurrents.
2. If you are going to hold the former Secretary of State Rice accountable for her actions a decade ago, would you hold Secretary of State Hillary Clinton to the same standard I wonder?
3. Here is what you have proven: Overly-zealous politically motivated enclaves in American universities have more throw-weight than any other constituency. Forget about acknowledging outstanding women in government. Forget about acknowledging superior, scorching-smart black American women. The most important measure of worth as a citizen in your university-world is whether or not that citizen has offended your very narrow, un-American, left wing faculty and its groupies.
I am so glad that Condoleezza Rice took the high-road but I am not surprised. She has distinguished herself again and again and again as an individual who will not be pulled down by haters and who will not be put down by her lessers.
Thursday, May 8, 2014
Yet Another Common Core Smack Down
I love this Common Core moment! George Will echoes many of the points I made a few months ago about the creepy use of the word "align". He sees the clear and present danger that Common Core represents and responds with a powerful smack-down. Thank you, George.
http://theliberatedlearner.blogspot.com/2013/11/ccsi-common-core-standards-initiative.html
Juan Williams: “And, I don’t think it’s out of place for our governors, for our school leaders, local school leaders, to say, ‘Here are the common standards that we want them to achieve' The military’s on board, the Chamber of Commerce is on board, even Condoleeza Rice and the Council of Foreign Affairs are on board.”
George Will’s response is powerful, even connecting the lies told about Common Core to those lies told about Obamacare by beginning with a play on words of Obama’s ‘Lie of the Year.’
George Will: They’re all wrong, and here’s why.
“The advocates of the Common Core say, ‘If you like local control over your schools, you can keep it. Period. If you like your local curriculum, you can keep it. Period.’ And people don’t believe them, for very good reasons.”“This is a thin end of an enormous wedge of federal power that will be wielded for the constant progressive purpose of concentrating power in Washington, so that it can impose continental solutions to problems nationwide.”“You (common core supporters) say it’s voluntary. It has been driven by the (federal government’s) use of bribes and coercion in the form of waivers from No Child Left Behind or Race to the Top money – to buy the compliance of these 45 states, two of which – Indiana, and I believe, Oklahoma – have already backed out, and they will not be the last.”“Watch the verb ‘align’ in this argument. They’re going to align the SAT and the ACT tests with the curriculum. They’re going to align the textbooks with the tests. And sooner or later, you inevitably have a national curriculum that disregards the creativity of federalism.”“What are the chances (speaking to Juan Williams) that we’re going to have five or six creative governors experimenting with different curricula, or one creative, constant, permanent Washington bureaucracy overlooking our education?”“We’ve had 50 years now of the Elementary and Secondary Education Act – 50 years of federal involvement that has coincided with stagnation in test scores across the country.”
http://theliberatedlearner.blogspot.com/2013/11/ccsi-common-core-standards-initiative.html
Tuesday, April 15, 2014
The Congressional Award Program for Youth
Have you ever wondered how you can get your teen recognition for doing good things, even if these things don't include finding a cure for cancer, developing a new technology, or writing a NYT best seller before the age of 16 ?
Then you should check out The Congressional Award Program.
www.congressionalaward.org
Two of my kids did this program and received the Congressional Gold Award. This included ceremonies in DC, meetings with senators and congressmen, internship opportunities, and membership in a community of youth who are on the road to success. My 3rd teen is in the middle of earning this award now. The youngest eagerly awaits his turn.
Students must be 13.5 years old to begin. Enrollment costs $15. It takes a minimum of 24 months to complete the program. The good news is that most of what a student needs to do to earn the Gold Award falls into the category of stuff they are probably already doing.
To achieve the Gold, a student needs to log 200 hours of physical fitness, 200 hours of personal development, 400 hours of community service and a few days and nights away from home immersed in a culture different than his own. (You do not have to go far; you just have to do something that challenges you.)
This program really does teach a teen how to set goals and stick to them. At a time when so many outstanding teens maneuver to check all of the boxes for extraordinary (and somewhat clichéd) activities on their march toward acceptance to the universities for the best and the brightest, this program focuses on the straightforward work of sticking to some goals over a period of a few years.
The other students we met at the award ceremonies were all stand-outs and most of them were actually headed to good schools. No surprise - it turns out that a kid who hangs in there, working on goals over a long period, also has what it takes to gain entry to his top choice school. But the Congressional Award Program is not an achievement test. Top grades are not uncommon among the candidates, but they are by no means required to earn the Gold Award. What a teen does need to get the Gold Award is sincerity and resolve.
Here's John getting his gold medal in 2011 from the only
Congressman who can make him (John) look short (!)
Then you should check out The Congressional Award Program.
www.congressionalaward.org
Two of my kids did this program and received the Congressional Gold Award. This included ceremonies in DC, meetings with senators and congressmen, internship opportunities, and membership in a community of youth who are on the road to success. My 3rd teen is in the middle of earning this award now. The youngest eagerly awaits his turn.
Students must be 13.5 years old to begin. Enrollment costs $15. It takes a minimum of 24 months to complete the program. The good news is that most of what a student needs to do to earn the Gold Award falls into the category of stuff they are probably already doing.
To achieve the Gold, a student needs to log 200 hours of physical fitness, 200 hours of personal development, 400 hours of community service and a few days and nights away from home immersed in a culture different than his own. (You do not have to go far; you just have to do something that challenges you.)
This program really does teach a teen how to set goals and stick to them. At a time when so many outstanding teens maneuver to check all of the boxes for extraordinary (and somewhat clichéd) activities on their march toward acceptance to the universities for the best and the brightest, this program focuses on the straightforward work of sticking to some goals over a period of a few years.
The other students we met at the award ceremonies were all stand-outs and most of them were actually headed to good schools. No surprise - it turns out that a kid who hangs in there, working on goals over a long period, also has what it takes to gain entry to his top choice school. But the Congressional Award Program is not an achievement test. Top grades are not uncommon among the candidates, but they are by no means required to earn the Gold Award. What a teen does need to get the Gold Award is sincerity and resolve.
Here's John getting his gold medal in 2011 from the only
Congressman who can make him (John) look short (!)
Below is Nora getting her gold medal in 2013!
Sunday, April 13, 2014
Ivy League + Top University Acceptance Rates - 2014
Business Insider published the new undergraduate acceptance rates 2 weeks ago and since then many others who chronicle elite university acceptances have weighed in with opinions on the insanity. Despite the prospect of crushing debt paired with a very uncertain job market, more kids than ever are trying to get into the very best schools.
The 2014 Acceptance Rates at the most competitive universities in USA are:
http://www.businessinsider.com/ivy-league-acceptance-2018-2014-3
Stanford University 5.2
Harvard 5.9
Yale 6.72
Columbia 6.94
Princeton 7.28
MIT 7.7
Caltech 8
Brown 8.6
University of Pennsylvania 9.9
Duke 10.7
Dartmouth 11.5
Vanderbilt 12
Amherst 13
Cornell 14
Swarthmore 17
Some of the non-Ivies are harder to get into than the Ivies - Stanford, MIT, and Caltech, for example. These schools attract students who have remarkable achievements in math and science.
If you ever doubted the desirability of the prestigious "8" Ivies - the statistics below should prove just how many are clawing to get in:
Brown University — 30,291 applicants (2,619 accepted)
Columbia University — 32,967 applicants (2,291 accepted)
Cornell University — 43,041 applicants (6,025 accepted)
Dartmouth College — 19,235 applicants (2,220 accepted)
Harvard University — 34,295 applicants (2,023 accepted)
University of Pennsylvania — 35,788 applicants (3,551 accepted)
Princeton University — 26,607 applicants (1,939 accepted)
Yale University — 30,922 applicants (1,935 accepted)
Holy Cow.
The 2014 Acceptance Rates at the most competitive universities in USA are:
http://www.businessinsider.com/ivy-league-acceptance-2018-2014-3
Stanford University 5.2
Harvard 5.9
Yale 6.72
Columbia 6.94
Princeton 7.28
MIT 7.7
Caltech 8
Brown 8.6
University of Pennsylvania 9.9
Duke 10.7
Dartmouth 11.5
Vanderbilt 12
Amherst 13
Cornell 14
Swarthmore 17
Some of the non-Ivies are harder to get into than the Ivies - Stanford, MIT, and Caltech, for example. These schools attract students who have remarkable achievements in math and science.
If you ever doubted the desirability of the prestigious "8" Ivies - the statistics below should prove just how many are clawing to get in:
Brown University — 30,291 applicants (2,619 accepted)
Columbia University — 32,967 applicants (2,291 accepted)
Cornell University — 43,041 applicants (6,025 accepted)
Dartmouth College — 19,235 applicants (2,220 accepted)
Harvard University — 34,295 applicants (2,023 accepted)
University of Pennsylvania — 35,788 applicants (3,551 accepted)
Princeton University — 26,607 applicants (1,939 accepted)
Yale University — 30,922 applicants (1,935 accepted)
Holy Cow.
Why the numbers of applicants keep increasing is outlined nicely in this recent New York Time article:
Among the reasons cited the top culprit is the applicant pool. It is not unusual for qualified students to apply to ALL of the schools listed above. This introduces many inefficiencies to the acceptance process. It also results in a good student often attending a school that is not a good match. It would be much better if students took time to fully investigate the schools, find a match, focus on that school exclusively, and then apply under a restrictive early admissions process. With so much competition for so few spots, it is a fierce contest indeed. I think the applicant pool is waiting for the universities to blink first. I suspect that students (and their exhausted parents) are thinking: "Save us from ourselves, please. Do something!"
In a recent post on a yahoo group I follow closely, one parent suggested that the top universities develop a software program as an intelligent buffer between them (the schools) and the applicants. Applicants who are determined to apply to all of the best schools would have to rank their top three picks. Let the software do the rest. Theoretically, this would produce more precise placements for those who are attractive to ALL of the schools, leaving more openings and reducing some of the scrambling that occurs in April.
My Big Idea: I think the top universities should include a question designed specifically to find the most committed kids. This essay question would be: "How many times have you visited this university (include dates) and what were the highlights of your visit(s)? If you have not explored the campus of this university, why not?" Most universities claim that they do not track official visits. That is, they say that they don't go through their records to see if you attended an official tour. Many do not even have a formal sign-up for their tours. I think this is a mistake. Why ignore data that can help discern the "sincerity factor"?
Bottom line: If applicants do more homework, become more focused in their search, and select more sincerely, and if universities used the important information that this sincerity reveals, everyone would be happier and the bottle-neck would be loosened. Of course, not all kids would be truthful, and, true, internationals would have a special challenge, but surely this question would help eliminate the birdshot approach?
Saturday, April 12, 2014
Homeschooler's Guide to the Middle School Galaxy
This post is for the many, many homeschool families who ask me about the middle school years and how best to prepare for high school when a competitive college admission is the ultimate goal.
I've met many parents of middle school students who feel stranded. They want to be prepared for the high school years that are skulking around the corner. They want to get this right, but they're unsure. School administrators, grandparents, and well-meaning friends offer "do this, do that" sound bites. But, inertia and uncertainty prevail.
There are two distinct phases of home education, after the elementary years wind down: The Interrogatory Phase (middle school) and the Execution Phase (high school).
It is in the Interrogatory Phase that you learn what you will be doing in the Execution Phase. The Execution Phase is a terribly busy time and as the name implies, you are putting into action all of the plans you made in the late middle school years. If you wait until high school to ask the important questions, you will find yourself bogged down, confused, and feeling rather ineffective.
What happens in the Interrogatory Phase other than school?
Figure out your kid
What does my student love best and where does he/she excel? For example: Does she like to build things? Is he quick with his math? Does she read above grade level? Can he write better than most boys his age? Do topics in science, music, art, or history hold her attention more?
It might seem like a lot to know about your student but if you pay close attention to your days, the answers are there. Your goal is to get an academic lock on your student and know his strengths, weaknesses, and special interests. Pay attention to your student's skill set and talents. These are the headwaters from which good things can flow.
Test
For an objective "stock-taking", you'll need to test. I am not a big advocate of testing, especially in elementary school, but by middle school you really need to get a fix on how your student measures up against the general population. We are not very good scorekeepers for our own kids.
(There are many online resources for testing your student in the privacy of your home, if you prefer. A google search will reap a harvest of them.)
1. You can have your older middle school student take the PSAT or the SAT. Scores prior to 9th grade are purged - no one but you will ever see them. You don't have to get upset with low scores here because you will adjust down for his/her age. For example, if your 7th grade student has an SAT math score of 500 - you should be very encouraged; that is quite good for that grade level.
2. There is also a test called the SSAT (not administered by the College Board). The SSAT is similar in shape to the SAT, is geared toward the middle school student, and it will give you a projected SAT score, depending on the age of your student when he takes this test. The SSAT is a personal favorite of mine.
What does this testing accomplish?
1. You will have a reality check.
2. You will know where you need to concentrate your efforts.
3. If your student has real strength in one area, it will be revealed and you may have a ticket to gifted learning programs.
4. Since all of these achievement exams are (at minimum) 3 hours long, your student will know ahead of time what it feels like to sit through this endurance test. Better your kid do this before it counts than do it for the first time when it really does count.
Preparedness
Is my student ready for high school? Is he ready to work hard? Does she know how to manage her time? Does he know why he needs to do all of this work? Are we on the same page?
Most students do not know what they want to do with their lives. But, they should still have goals. Without goals, how will you get them to study into the late hours of the night and on weekends when that time/need arrives. It is very hard to push a kid who does not have a shared vision of excellence and achievement. To instill this desire in your student, he must see the goal(s). You should do college tours. It might sound foolish to traipse across the campus of Columbia University with a middle school student - it is not. Pick a beautiful day, travel without time constraint on a day when classes are in session, jump in to an organized tour or just walk the campus and hang in the nearby eateries to get a sense of the intellectual energy and excitement that you will find everywhere. If you can get your student excited about attending ONE college, ANY college, then you are on the "go" square of the game board. You can build goals from there. Without this, you will find yourself parroting admonitions which will fall on deaf ears. A student needs a tangible goal, especially if no particular career goal is present. Invest in your student's enthusiasm.
Does my middle school student even KNOW what hard work looks like?
This is critically important. Your daughter might view 20 math problems per week as punitive. Your son might think that a weekly 250 word essay is pure torture. Most middle school students need to calibrate what they think is hard work to what hard work actually is. They need good models. Middle school students who want to land in a competitive college need to meet other students with similar goals.. Your job is to find them. The homeschool community is filled with success stories. Find the families who have high-achieving kids. Ask them what they did. If your 12 year old son or daughter sits down with a 21 year old who has a proven academic track record and they hear it straight from the source, they will never forget it. It is golden.
To find peers, try to get your middle school student into one high-achieving program, whether online or through your local community.
From Ideas to Action Plans
During the Interrogatory Phase of the middle school years you should try out different things. This takes time but it is worth it. If math seems to come easy, find a math club. If your student loves science, do science fairs. If writing is at the top of the list, find contests and competitions to enter. Your goal is to get some traction. Once that happens you will see real progress. Advice for mom - get on numerous homeschool discussion loops and scour the digests from these groups nightly. This is how you learn about cool, local opportunities. You will have to make a regular investment of time to do this research. Here is a terrific website with lists and lists of competitions in science, art, history, math, computers and writing. A good place to start - http://cty.jhu.edu/imagine/resources/competitions/index.html
This list includes a good number of competitions for middle school students.
If a student is preparing to compete for something - anything - he will be more focused. Then you (mom) can reverse-engineer your school year around this event. Big events like these actually ADD structure to your year.
Plan, Plan, Plan Some More
Once you have gathered up activities, events and competitions, you are one easy step away from creating a calendar for the year with clear goals mapped out. Keep going with this. Do a hypothetical 4-year high school plan. Involve your middle school student in this. Of course, this plan is going to morph. But if you have no plan at all, you are bound to fall short of a high standard.
Broaden Horizons
A desire to achieve and the determination to do hard things won't come out of thin air. You need to nurture it. There are wonderful educational events run by Learning Unlimited throughout the year. Middle school students can take exciting classes on the campuses of some of the best universities in the country for as little as $30 for a full weekend of amazing courses. No grades are given. University students volunteer to teach. Often a middle school student discovers an entire field of science or language they did not even know existed. Inspiration is everywhere. Do this! Do it as often as you can.
http://www.learningu.org/current-programs Get on the mailing list. Have it on your calendar. The MIT and Yale programs are especially good.
Your Leadership
Many years ago a homeschool family asked to meet with me. Mom and dad could not get their kids to read books. They wanted advice. Most home educating families know that in order to be poised for the academic world kids need to read - a lot. They need to read hard stuff and they need to read often. These parents were worried. Their kids did not have dyslexia or ADHD. They were neurotypical kids. "Why can't we get them to read?" they lamented. I asked them what they (mom and dad) were currently reading, looking high and low for a sign of books. "We don't read, we don't have time for it." Hmm.
The prescription is simple. Kids will read more if you have a set reading time and lead by example. Kids will also read in the absence of other forms of entertainment and if most table top surfaces hold a small stack of interesting books.
If your middle school kids are glued to glowing rectangles, have technology free hours built into the day and have good books ready to fill the gap. It is harder now than it ever was before to encourage kids to read books. The glowing screens hold far more appeal. We cannot extricate ourselves from these devices entirely but we can claim back a few hours a day - this is a reasonable goal. Lead the way on this.
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The middle school years are a period of intense mentorship. It is during these years that you can establish that you and your student are on the same team. The road to excellence is arduous, but it is made easier when the prize is clear, the goals are reasonable, and your leadership is obvious. You got this ! Godspeed !
I've met many parents of middle school students who feel stranded. They want to be prepared for the high school years that are skulking around the corner. They want to get this right, but they're unsure. School administrators, grandparents, and well-meaning friends offer "do this, do that" sound bites. But, inertia and uncertainty prevail.
There are two distinct phases of home education, after the elementary years wind down: The Interrogatory Phase (middle school) and the Execution Phase (high school).
It is in the Interrogatory Phase that you learn what you will be doing in the Execution Phase. The Execution Phase is a terribly busy time and as the name implies, you are putting into action all of the plans you made in the late middle school years. If you wait until high school to ask the important questions, you will find yourself bogged down, confused, and feeling rather ineffective.
What happens in the Interrogatory Phase other than school?
Figure out your kid
What does my student love best and where does he/she excel? For example: Does she like to build things? Is he quick with his math? Does she read above grade level? Can he write better than most boys his age? Do topics in science, music, art, or history hold her attention more?
It might seem like a lot to know about your student but if you pay close attention to your days, the answers are there. Your goal is to get an academic lock on your student and know his strengths, weaknesses, and special interests. Pay attention to your student's skill set and talents. These are the headwaters from which good things can flow.
Test
For an objective "stock-taking", you'll need to test. I am not a big advocate of testing, especially in elementary school, but by middle school you really need to get a fix on how your student measures up against the general population. We are not very good scorekeepers for our own kids.
(There are many online resources for testing your student in the privacy of your home, if you prefer. A google search will reap a harvest of them.)
1. You can have your older middle school student take the PSAT or the SAT. Scores prior to 9th grade are purged - no one but you will ever see them. You don't have to get upset with low scores here because you will adjust down for his/her age. For example, if your 7th grade student has an SAT math score of 500 - you should be very encouraged; that is quite good for that grade level.
2. There is also a test called the SSAT (not administered by the College Board). The SSAT is similar in shape to the SAT, is geared toward the middle school student, and it will give you a projected SAT score, depending on the age of your student when he takes this test. The SSAT is a personal favorite of mine.
What does this testing accomplish?
1. You will have a reality check.
2. You will know where you need to concentrate your efforts.
3. If your student has real strength in one area, it will be revealed and you may have a ticket to gifted learning programs.
4. Since all of these achievement exams are (at minimum) 3 hours long, your student will know ahead of time what it feels like to sit through this endurance test. Better your kid do this before it counts than do it for the first time when it really does count.
Preparedness
Is my student ready for high school? Is he ready to work hard? Does she know how to manage her time? Does he know why he needs to do all of this work? Are we on the same page?
Most students do not know what they want to do with their lives. But, they should still have goals. Without goals, how will you get them to study into the late hours of the night and on weekends when that time/need arrives. It is very hard to push a kid who does not have a shared vision of excellence and achievement. To instill this desire in your student, he must see the goal(s). You should do college tours. It might sound foolish to traipse across the campus of Columbia University with a middle school student - it is not. Pick a beautiful day, travel without time constraint on a day when classes are in session, jump in to an organized tour or just walk the campus and hang in the nearby eateries to get a sense of the intellectual energy and excitement that you will find everywhere. If you can get your student excited about attending ONE college, ANY college, then you are on the "go" square of the game board. You can build goals from there. Without this, you will find yourself parroting admonitions which will fall on deaf ears. A student needs a tangible goal, especially if no particular career goal is present. Invest in your student's enthusiasm.
Does my middle school student even KNOW what hard work looks like?
This is critically important. Your daughter might view 20 math problems per week as punitive. Your son might think that a weekly 250 word essay is pure torture. Most middle school students need to calibrate what they think is hard work to what hard work actually is. They need good models. Middle school students who want to land in a competitive college need to meet other students with similar goals.. Your job is to find them. The homeschool community is filled with success stories. Find the families who have high-achieving kids. Ask them what they did. If your 12 year old son or daughter sits down with a 21 year old who has a proven academic track record and they hear it straight from the source, they will never forget it. It is golden.
To find peers, try to get your middle school student into one high-achieving program, whether online or through your local community.
From Ideas to Action Plans
During the Interrogatory Phase of the middle school years you should try out different things. This takes time but it is worth it. If math seems to come easy, find a math club. If your student loves science, do science fairs. If writing is at the top of the list, find contests and competitions to enter. Your goal is to get some traction. Once that happens you will see real progress. Advice for mom - get on numerous homeschool discussion loops and scour the digests from these groups nightly. This is how you learn about cool, local opportunities. You will have to make a regular investment of time to do this research. Here is a terrific website with lists and lists of competitions in science, art, history, math, computers and writing. A good place to start - http://cty.jhu.edu/imagine/resources/competitions/index.html
This list includes a good number of competitions for middle school students.
If a student is preparing to compete for something - anything - he will be more focused. Then you (mom) can reverse-engineer your school year around this event. Big events like these actually ADD structure to your year.
Plan, Plan, Plan Some More
Once you have gathered up activities, events and competitions, you are one easy step away from creating a calendar for the year with clear goals mapped out. Keep going with this. Do a hypothetical 4-year high school plan. Involve your middle school student in this. Of course, this plan is going to morph. But if you have no plan at all, you are bound to fall short of a high standard.
Broaden Horizons
A desire to achieve and the determination to do hard things won't come out of thin air. You need to nurture it. There are wonderful educational events run by Learning Unlimited throughout the year. Middle school students can take exciting classes on the campuses of some of the best universities in the country for as little as $30 for a full weekend of amazing courses. No grades are given. University students volunteer to teach. Often a middle school student discovers an entire field of science or language they did not even know existed. Inspiration is everywhere. Do this! Do it as often as you can.
http://www.learningu.org/current-programs Get on the mailing list. Have it on your calendar. The MIT and Yale programs are especially good.
Your Leadership
Many years ago a homeschool family asked to meet with me. Mom and dad could not get their kids to read books. They wanted advice. Most home educating families know that in order to be poised for the academic world kids need to read - a lot. They need to read hard stuff and they need to read often. These parents were worried. Their kids did not have dyslexia or ADHD. They were neurotypical kids. "Why can't we get them to read?" they lamented. I asked them what they (mom and dad) were currently reading, looking high and low for a sign of books. "We don't read, we don't have time for it." Hmm.
The prescription is simple. Kids will read more if you have a set reading time and lead by example. Kids will also read in the absence of other forms of entertainment and if most table top surfaces hold a small stack of interesting books.
If your middle school kids are glued to glowing rectangles, have technology free hours built into the day and have good books ready to fill the gap. It is harder now than it ever was before to encourage kids to read books. The glowing screens hold far more appeal. We cannot extricate ourselves from these devices entirely but we can claim back a few hours a day - this is a reasonable goal. Lead the way on this.
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The middle school years are a period of intense mentorship. It is during these years that you can establish that you and your student are on the same team. The road to excellence is arduous, but it is made easier when the prize is clear, the goals are reasonable, and your leadership is obvious. You got this ! Godspeed !
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